Quiet hours

Nothing good is sent at 11.40pm.

Most of the messages people regret are sent late, tired and angry. Quiet hours let you set the times when messages wait, so the exchange happens in the morning, with the facts and without the heat.

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Late messages demand late answers

A message at 11pm feels urgent even when it is about next Thursday. Then two people are awake and angry.

Notifications set the pace

Every buzz is a pull back into the conflict, whatever time it is.

You cannot set a boundary alone

Telling your co-parent not to message at night starts another argument. A setting does it quietly.

How quiet hours work

Set the hours that suit your home

Choose when messages wait. Anything sent in that window is delivered when quiet hours end.

Nothing is lost

Messages are not blocked; they are held. Both parents know the rule, so nobody is ignoring anybody.

Calmer by morning

A request read at 8am with coffee gets a better answer than the same request at midnight.

Works with Tone Guard

What does get sent has already been checked for tone. Together they remove most late-night escalations.

Check a message before the morning

If you are drafting something late, paste it here first. The checker will show you how it is likely to land.

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